Things in "Unoffendable" by Brant Hansen might offend
you, but that can be a good thing! Learning to not be offended can bring "new dimensions of rest, grace, and simplicity".
Overview: It’s a radical, provocative idea: We’re not entitled to get offended
or stay angry. The idea of our own “righteous anger” is a myth. It is
the number one problem in our societies today and, as Dallas Willard
says, Christians have not been taught out of it.
As it turns out,
giving up our “right” to be offended can be one of the most freeing,
healthy, simplifying, relaxing, refreshing, stress-relieving,
encouraging things we can do.
In
Unoffendable readers
will find something of immeasurable value—a concrete, practical way to
live life with less stress. They’ll adjust their expectations to fit
human nature and replace perpetual anger with refreshing humility and
gratitude. The book offers a unique viewpoint, challenging the idea that Christians can ever harbor “righteous anger” or that there even
is such a thing for believers.
Few
other books exist with such a radical, provocative proposal to
consider. We have no right to anger. We are to get rid of it, period.
Completely. And it
is possible to choose to be “unoffendable.”
Through
the author’s winsome, humorous, and conversational style, this book
doesn’t add another thing to do on a stressed-out person’s ever-growing
list. Better, it actually seeks to
lift religious burdens from
readers’ backs and allow them to experience the joy of gratitude,
perhaps for the first time, every single day of their lives.
Dawn's Recommendation: 4.5 of 5 Stars
First, I like love Brant Hansen's humor. I love listening to
his talk show on the radio (Christian radio WordFM). His book reads just like
he talks. That might take a little getting used to, but you'll be glad to dig deep into this book! Here's why.
I wanted to read the book b/c I like Brant's show, not
because I thought I had a problem with anger and being offended. Here's the
kicker. While reading the book, I realized I DO have a problem! Not so much
with anger, but with judging and not accepting people who are different than
me. I have a problem loving all people. Wow.
This book was fantastic for me, spiritually. It, like The
Bible and like other books I've read like "Jesus Prom", teach me to
love like Jesus did/does. This book tells me to stop being offended by people
(what they do and say) and just love them. Don't condemn
them. Don't throw rules at them. Just love them. (And, life becomes sweeter for you too.)
You are going to enjoy the stories that Brant shares, his humor, and the message.
I have to share this God Sighting. I was 1/4 of the way
through the book and I met an artist at a downtown craft show. She and her
photography were raw, but beautiful. She captured the ugly, the unwanted, the broken,
and discarded things in life...and made them into art. I connected with her and
her work. That night I prayed for her. Hard. She may never know the impact she
made on me, but it fit perfectly with "Unoffendable". God takes us,
broken and sinful, and makes us beautiful and holy.
Disclaimer: I got this book free from BookLook Bloggers in exchange for my honest book review.
How would the world change if we stopped being offended and just loved?